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Healthy Mediterranean Foods – inspired by restaurant notes

Healthy Mediterranean foods is my world and a healthy diet way as in what you eat. Like this list of printable Mediterranean diet grocery list.

Mediterranean Grocery Foods - 200+ Printable list

 

Off and on my hospitality career, I worked behind-the-scenes in food catering planning and event management for Spanish, Italian, and Lebanese restaurants and fine hotels in the Washington, DC area… a foodie hub.

During that time, I picked up many great healthy Mediterranean foods inspirations and also visited Italy and Spain.

Some of my fondest food event memories were the large corporate and bridal events that started out in my hotel days and then in restaurants. 

And where I could be table setting pops of color with the festive food dishes. …I know where my today-brunch table roots came from.

In alignment, I was also co-hosting brunches in some of the foodie-st restaurants near the ones  I represented and worked in… like Jose Andres’ fun DC restaurants and many American farm-t0-table ones that stand out.

From all those experiences, I learned to create balanced menus for preferred and customized tastes around specific seasons, daily occasions, and special events.

I got to make input and taste-test delicious foods, recipes, and dishes. With the Spanish, Italian, and Lebanese chefs, I was thankful they were much easier to work with than the ones that came from Ritz Carlton type-hotels (that give chefs their edge and what-you’d-expect in a chef fiery reputation 😊).

Today, the Spanish and Italian chefs stick out for me.

…Which btw, Spanish and Italian cuisines are having a moment (yes?) with Stanley Tucci’s Tucci in Italy and Eva Longoria’s Searching for Spain.

Have you seen?

They’re great for sparking food travel. If only you and I had  smell-o-vision… 💭

But without, those countries had some of my favorite inspired healthy Mediterranean food dishes that can be prepared and made at home. 

For starters, these are 3 healthy Mediterranean recipes soups and salads that also help to balance Vata and especially tame Pitta imbalances that are common in hot months.

One of my favorite plates was the fresh watermelon feta salad that many people love around the world.

watermelon mint salad as part of a healthy Mediterranean foods diet.

Salt and watermelon are great pairings because the coarse salt stops the juicy in watermelon and gives a nice balance.

Salt added here is a lot like when you add a coriander seed and you bite into one and you get a strong burst of favorable flavor. 

And when you add mint, you get a super-refreshing salad. Cooling mint added to juicy-ripe summer watermelon with salt and then finished off with a drizzle of balanced olive oil is a balanced salad or dessert. 🍉

summer mediterranean recipes

watermelon mint salad.
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Watermelon Mint Salad

Course Salad
Cuisine American, Mediterranean
Author Brandy @ Healthy Happy Life Secrets

Ingredients

  • fresh watermelon cut
  • olive oil
  • fresh mint
  • coarse sea salt
  • goat cheese crumbles (optional)

Instructions

  • Drizzle olive oil over watermelon
  • Add coarse sea salt
  • Generously add mint to watermelon

Feta cheese is often added but I prefer a sweeter goat cheese crumble that’s less salty. That way you get an overall sweet taste. Or you can add a dollop of Greek yogurt that’s more creamy like an Icelandic yogurt.

You could serve with lightly toasted pita chips where you can also make your own easy pita bread chips.

Spanish food dishes:

Planning parties and marketing at a Spanish restaurant chain called La Tasca allowed me to experiment with many Spanish food tastes and healthy Mediterranean foods.

The menu was full of variety… and never-ending like a Cheesecake Factory menu.

And in the Spanish restaurant version, one of my faves was a seasonal freshly-prepared gazpacho soup that traditionally is served cold and without tomato overpowering as the base. 

But I like the sweetness of tomatoes that are abundant in hot temps when you want a cold soup.

So for this gazpacho, the blend I like is: blended watermelon (or cucumber if watermelon isn’t available), fresh diced tomato, cumin (that’s also cooling), and a drizzle of olive oil and garlic.

There’s enough water in watermelon to make a soup.

Minced pimiento sweet peppers are also great to add. They’re anti-inflammatory healthy and the bright fire engine red is striking. 🌶️

No heat in this gazpacho!

Then I like to add balancing fresh cilantro and salt & pepper.

…I remember ingredients used to always end with “salt and pepper to taste” and somehow that got dropped, maybe ‘cause of all the other great ingredients that we have access to.

I think S&P still are the two that often are the final balancing flavors if you can’t quite put your finger on what’s missing. 🧂

Coarser kosher or sea salts are star ingredients for certain healthy dishes, like a gazpacho, Brussels sprouts, edamame, watermelon salad, and pasta water.

Btw, Brussels sprouts are actually named after Belgium’s capital, Brussels. So that’s how you can also remember.

Food is simple in that the name often gives its origin away, but is complex because you don’t know what’s inside until you’ve had a taste.

And a gazpacho is one taste you can’t forget and named after “soaked bread” from Andalusia… I love how that region name (An-da-loo-see-ah) just rolls off the tongue like interesting music notes.

Traditionally, a gazpacho is served with a spongy white, unsalted bread that doesn’t have much taste (like Wonder Bread you would feed the ducks with at a lake 😊). 

…This also reminds me of the bread served at Tuscan meals and with my favorite Ribollita soup served warm and great for wet and cool days (in early spring, late fall, or winter)… or if you’re feeling a bit over-Vata and need some comforting balance food.

You can also try a gazpacho inside a bread bowl.

Italian food dishes:

I started working in restaurants in my teens. The first one with servers was an upscale all-marble floor Italian restaurant chain. There I got in the habit of dipping bread in olive oil with cracked black pepper.

This was before that was common to do in restaurants.

The bread was served by a server who came around with black pepper mills who asked if you wanted to have fresh black pepper in your dipping olive oil and on your entree when it was served.

Serving butter with bread before and during the meal was still the American restaurant norm those days. Not olive oil.

The restaurant I worked in also had the first cappuccino machines in America (…those were exciting times!).

I wasn’t a coffee drinker then but I thought the machine was so cool and I was happy to make the drink! 

Funny how these little Mediterranean healthy foods and drink (olive oil and cappuccino) intros stuck… many American restaurants customarily serve bread with olive oil because of these Mediterranean-influenced restaurants.

And we know what happened with cappuccinos as they’re everywhere.

And it was that restaurant experience where I also came to love this salad plate 🥗 (and you may too!):

Tomato Mozzarella Basil Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette. It’s a work of food art with balsamic vinaigrette dotted around the plate for each bite (like a paint palette…  “a little dab will do you.”).

In summer, tomatoes on the vine are abundant and if you grow tomatoes, you may not know what to do with all of them.

Besides making a pasta sauce or gazpacho, a shrimp cocktail sauce is an idea. And salads of course! 

Plum or Roma tomatoes are great for most salad recipes. They don’t squirt everywhere and they have a strong taste, unlike tomatoes for burgers.

San Marzano tomatoes were common in Italian restaurants and are now the rage in home cooking…

And so are heirloom tomatoes (organic). The tri-color yellow, purple, with orange give a visual pop of color too!

Also green tomatoes that aren’t as common anymore.

And for a tomato mozzarella salad, all tomatoes will work.

Then ontop of the tomatoes, add some sliced buffalo mozzarella cheese that’s the star of this recipe.

Buffalo mozzarella (white color) on its own doesn’t have much of a flavor, but paired with these ingredients… is scrumptious and anything but mild.

Sometimes people who have dairy sensitivities can eat this kind of cheese from buffalo.

Ontop the cheese, don’t forget the fresh basil and it’ll look like an Italian flag.

And for the zhugh? Pine nuts were popular and people who have tree nut allergies can sometimes eat the nut that comes from pines.

If you toast them, be sure to watch them as they can burn quickly.

Today, you can also sub in walnuts or sunflower seeds if you like.

So that’s it for this week.  Good Eats, Buono Apetito, and Bon Appetit!

Hope you like that culinary healthy Mediterranean foods trio! 🥗

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Busy Decision Made Easy – Get Unstuck!

Busy doesn’t have to be your life if you want to get unstuck this season. And this 7-and-a half minute article has notes about how you can declutter busy in your life (and get more of the authentic best life you’re meant to wisely live!).

I know both ways well because busy is something I grew up aspiring to. A BUSY LIFE was my purpose like a busy bee going from flower to flower.

Busy as a busy bee in this pink garden flower.

…when I grew up and lived in the busy DC metro area culture where everyone working is busy. Having busy plans on-and-off work meant you were important in some way.

…And not being busy meant you didn’t have a life.

I thought busy was a great word, and lived busy up into my 30s.

Today, busy is a “b” as in bad word now to me years in.

But lemme quickly tell you how I got there…

I simply buzzed away from the busy bees in the DC metro area I grew up in for starters… 🐝

Before that, busy was a charm bracelet I wore. It also meant complicating life by adding more and more. Accumulating is a deeper concept that accumulates, taking up space in life (and adds to or creates Kapha imbalances).

The opposite of a simple life sounded so boring.

And where I’m from, you can simply say “I’ve been busy” and you won’t get questioned.

The answer of being busy often got the equivalent of a smiling thumbs up. 👍

On top of those attitudes, being stood up is and was rude, but it was (and probably still is) accepted and common in acting 20 year olds.

Because unless the person you’re interacting with is related to you or lives with you, they’re too busy to listen if they don’t have to. That’s part of the busy culture air.

Souls aren’t looking for deep conversations about the soul, ha!

What’s your dark knight of the soul? as the person walks away and I’m standing by myself.

…I laugh because those are my favorite types of conversations now. 😊

And gradually as I became more interested in personal growth (and grew less busy), I saw being busy from the lens of being an excuse.

That’s what happens when you fill up breathing in living an authentic life and prioritizing inner peace (that’s now occupying your inner space).

…Compare that to wanting to just come out unscathed from this life living on the surface, like during my lowest seasons where I also dreamed of external-only happy desires.

Digging myself out of this way, I carved out big chunks of the day to be free, silent and listening to my thoughts, immersed in relaxing hobbies, writing, reading, writing some more, and just being at-peace, happy-joyful, and balanced.

No meditation except getting input and ideas from initiated prayer and memories from experiences, books, and others’ useful words.

And I’ll even go out on a limb and say, certain types of meditation as I know it are just another way to be busy… you know after a while of doing if it’s sucking life out of you (not giving back) OR if it’s life-giving and you can’t do without. Amen?

For me, one meditation way that works is getting in the zone of creative free-flow writing.

That I did very little of if at all in my corporate headspace days when I operated at my lowest vibration, but what I was doing looked good on paper and to the people I grew up with and was mostly around.

Gradually in my new slower paced life, I developed personal growth through building up character traits that aligned with the fruit of the spirit if you’re familiar.

Mainly: faith, patience, self-control, and peace.

These are deeper traits I never improved before (and were actually made worse in my former culture that modeled the opposite by outward actions).

And I had to go out of my way to seek those things and let them penetrate.

So then I had a new mark of success as personal growth (over external and corporate role accomplishments that used to be the primary mark).

To help unravel the busy life damage I soaked in, one step I took was I stopped filling up a calendar (that my earlier-hospitality event managing planner lifestyle approved and cozied up with).

I now like the look of a blank white calendar with a few fun stickers.😀

And today a nearly blank calendar is how I clearly see if I should add or skip an event… and then I decide.

And how I decide is based on the principle of GIVE and GET that I think is helpful for you if you want clarity in your life… and especially if you’re stuck.

And in this case use, it’s give OR get.

It goes like this…

If you’re giving something like teaching, encouraging, supporting, helping, mentoring, presenting, volunteering your time or donating money, then you have good reason to take time out of your day to be in that event headspace and with those people. It’s worth considering to put on your calendar.

…OR if you’re getting something out of an event like building connections, learning something new, supporting someone else, or getting yourself into happy moods by being somewhere else, then those are all good reasons to carve out time on your schedule.

But if not primarily going in and doing it for a Giving or Getting reason…

Then you’re allowing your drifting subconscious mind (that often influences and decides 😊)…  to be confused and wonder if you need to be at the event… or questioning other people and their behaviors or way of dress, and not focusing on what they’re teaching or saying…

And if we’re judging others or having negative thoughts or feelings about being there, then it’s best to catch that and exit gracefully when you can.

Move on and enjoy the sunshine where you feel good.

Get back your hours and move in the direction of where you want to go.

When you were younger, you couldn’t do that or you would be going against approval of some form.

And now you’re an adult who chooses…

Re-learning and setting new habits around the idea that what is good for others isn’t good for you… and taking action based on that wisdom saves you time and going down rabbit holes.

So when you determine if you’re giving or getting in a situation, that makes it Black-And-White easy to decide if you should add more of that busy to your calendar.

…So it’s clear all around.

But then there are exploratory busy time-taking areas that are Gray.

And these can be good (or GRAY-T) opportunities for growth.

For example, sometimes we sign up for things because our gut told us to and we’re unsure why… yet.

Because of unknown future and unlimited possibilities, you want to keep yourself open and sometimes intentionally busy yourself there to investigate… temporarily making yourself out-of-pocket for routine or something else.

So we go there to this new place to learn… and to check and figure it out.

…And when we’re there, sometimes we discover we’re not yet aligned with the message there… where we’re here and that’s there, but the seeds have been planted (by going to learn).

After the event, we may even think: that was a waste of time.

But it wasn’t because our soul (mind, will, emotions) and wise spirit (wired to the Universe) knew better than us… we just hadn’t caught up and weren’t ready yet.

And one day that boomerangs back to us in alignment when we have clarity and remember the experience and learning.

Leaning in and taking a reflective pause helps you investigate what’s best for your life and gives better discernment as to what to do next.

By choosing to NOT take action always, you gain clarity in the step back that’s also action.

And if you miss a specific space, place, or people you visited before to learn and meet with, then that could be a reason to go back to invite in more of those event occasions again.

You’ll know soon enough if you read your tea leaves right or if it was a false return to open you up for something new and different that’s your next pursuit… and not just a busy one.

That’s how we’re wired to do this life and figure out what’s BEST for us in the moment.

And using the GIVE or GET simple decision trick helps that.

Staying productive for a life of success is a balancing dance act of giving, getting, and enjoying.

It puts us at the higher energy level to bring in bigger and better, and less busy filler things… and higher leads to your fulfilling calling, purposes, and destiny. 🧡

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Cinnamon Roll – Low-Sugar Honey (and Foolproof!)

Cinnamon roll is how I roll! …You too?  C’mon buns (as in cinnamon buns).

Or cinnamon swirls that are whimsical. 🍥  You can bake and get these anytime you want from your oven!

They’re so swirly whimsical 🌀 and tasty comforting in the mouth (and inner child). 🍥

And hint: if you’re feeling adult anxious, a warm cinnamon roll and cinnamon tea any season of the year can comfort and hug you in a way like no other… ok, maybe a cozy blanket and a warm and fuzzy movie would go great too!

Those you can grab with your foolproof cinnamon roll.

FOOLPROOF because these decadent sweet bread rolls come out soft and airy light every time. 🥮 Or as long as I’ve been baking weekly since 2020.

I sacrificed… and bit into one with to show you the inner workings.😂

The air pocket, rise, and moist difference is in the flour type and yogurt add. Bread flour gives the rise and the yogurt helps the moist.

cinnamon roll with honey and coconut zhurgh

So often we’re confronted with which flour to use? And sometimes it’s a cake-bread or bready cake (…is that a type of dessert?).

…How I like to set the two apart is between either using yeast OR baking soda and baking powder.

If yeast is used, then bread flour (or in some cases whole wheat flour) is my go-to and that’s for a mostly bread-like consistency… like a cinnamon roll.

And if it’s cake, then some all-purpose or cake flour will give the cake texture.

And if you mix-and-match these flours, then you’ll like get more of a cake bread as the gluten-level is somewhere in the middle. Makes sense… and you don’t have to be good at math.

And to keep the math even more simple, this recipe uses all bread flour. So it’s no-mistake bread. 💯

Bread flour (or a mix with whole wheat flour) does the best for cinnamon buns in my opinion, but you can definitely substitute with crumbly gluten-free “healthy” flours and add natural xantham gum or other natural binders.

The bread prep can be done in 10 minutes by hand mixing 4 ingredients: warm water, flour, instant yeast, and salt.

This is an enriched dough so you can let it rest for a few minutes and start baking if you’re in a hurry… but better if you let it proof for an hour or two.

The moist and healthy vibes come from a healthy fat (light EVOO) and yogurt.

And below are the easy recipe steps.

B-ready? 

Which btw, cinnamon rolls are delicious to pair with a cinnamon tea or if that’s too much cinnamon, an Earl Grey tea with raisins in tea (and on top of buns if you like)… a little zhugh I learned along the way that adds to A BUN DANCE (abundance on a plate 🍽️).

…So you can be anticipating your bake with your warm bevy in hand.

 

kitchen food pantry cinnamon bun ingredients.

Low-Sugar Delicious Cinnamon Roll

This is a low-sugar cinnamon roll and you don’t need refined white sugar for this refined cinn-roll 😊 bread recipe. That’s especially good if low-sugar only is one of your healthy goals. It’s always a plus!

For sweetness: this recipe uses raw honey and cinnamon for sweetness that are anti-inflammatory ingredients. And with many healthy seasons in, I’m usually light-handed with sweet…  BUT this sweet duo I douse on heavy-handed as healthy and tasty good.

…This gives the punchy cinnamon ooey-gooey vibes that combined are comforting and anti-inflammatory.

And I recommend adding honey in the dough and as a final glaze ontop. You can use honey directly ontop (of an egg wash if you choose) or make a simple syrup mixed with a little heated water.

Also, add a bunch of cinnamon spice in the dough for the sweet that’ll make your oven smell like an autumn bakery.

Because healthy fat is used, it will be a little different than a flaky butter finish like you’d get in a pastry… but still epic.

C’MON- Cinnamon Roll 

Ingredients (for 8 rolls in a rectangular pan) or in the recipe below 👇 you can use a round pan to make a flower 🌼 design:

8”x 4” (or 9”x5”) pan

1-1/2 cups total flour (you can mix bread flour, whole wheat, gluten-free bread)

1 tsp instant yeast

1/2 Tbsp sea salt or pinch of salt

1 Tbsp raw honey (or maple syrup)

1 Tbsp plain yogurt (Greek yogurt recommended)

1 generous Tbsp of cinnamon spice (Cassia or common cinnamon for baking)

¾ cup warm water (+ possibly more)

neutral oil for lining pan

Directions:

Knead flour, yeast, water, and salt ingredients with a dough hook in a mixing bowl on medium-high speed adding just enough warm water until all the flour is incorporated.

Some of the dough will be stringy (shaggy?) dough pieces or crumbs, and not a smooth dough (not like a baby’s bottom 👶)… yet.

Knead until a smooth consistency about 7-9 minutes. Add in the cinnamon, yogurt, and honey and turn on the mixing machine a few more times just to fully combine.

Common questions (to make this fully foolproof so you can’t mess this up!):

Dough too wet? If your dough seems to wet when you’ve been kneading a few minutes, add a little flour back. You can use any bench (e.g. all purpose or bread flour).

Dough too dry? If your dough seems shaggy dry, add a little more water 1 teaspoon at a time as needed until you get a smooth consistency that naturally slides off the dough hook.

What type of cinnamon? In stores, you’ll often find two types: Cassia and Ceylon cinnamon. Cassia cinnamon is the common kind you see that’s good for these rolls and baking in general with. Leave the Ceylon cinnamon for your tea or warm bevy.

And after you’re confident with your dough, let it rest as a ball for 1-2 hours covered in a pan full lined with neutral oil and covered with a tea towel (or clean T-shirt cover will work).

You can also leave overnight covered in the fridge. If leaving overnight, add enough oil or water to the dough so it doesn’t dry out.

When you’re ready to bring the dough out either same day or from the fridge overnight, lay it on top of a little bench flour (any baking flour will work. I like to stick with the same ones I’m using in the buns or whole wheat flour).

Roll out the dough (not too thin but to about 1/4-1/2″ thick) into a rectangle shape and then cut strips with a pizza wheel cutter or knife, saving the dough scrap ends.

Roll out the remaining dough and combine with the dough scraps, to make 8 total long pieces about the same size.

These strips will be your rolled up buns with spirals up. ꩜

Bake time will vary depending on flour choices, dough thickness, baking pan, and oven. As a guideline, bake until a little darker than golden brown as the outside is browner then the inside that can still be a little moist/unbaked.

Suggested time and temperature: bake at 350 °F/180°C for about 45 minutes or until dark golden brown on the bottoms.

You’ll be tempted to think that they’re done sooner or maybe around the 30-35 minute mark, but inside they will still likely be raw… but you’re almost there! So let your rolls bake a little longer than the outer appearance.

Around the 30 minute mark while you’re checking, you may also want to add a glaze. I recommend 1 egg white with a teaspoon or so of water.

Mix and brush on top. It will leave a milky opaque glaze that will be good on its own OR as a primer for your final shiny (honey) glaze.

Cinnamon roll with egg white wash

These are foolproof. 

Best to enjoy the buns while they’re warm out of the oven.. or you can keep out for a day or so, and/or refrigerate covered for a few more days.

OR you can freeze for another occasion and bring out a day or two before you want to re-heat.

For more zhugh pairings, you can also add sweet orange zest. Looks like a pain aux raisins, n’est-ce pas? 🧡

This one is surrounded by a bergamot (Earl Grey) tea bath. 🫖

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Easy Low-Sugar Honey Cinnamon Roll Buns

Cinnamon roll with low-sugar and honey glaze.
Course Breakfast, Dessert
Cuisine American, swedish
Author Brandy @ Healthy Happy Life Secrets

Ingredients

  • 1-1/4 cups bread flour
  • 1 tsp instant yeast (if you use active yeast add to warm water to activate first)
  • 1/4 tbsp pinch of salt
  • 1 Tbsp raw honey
  • 1 Tbsp plain flavor yogurt
  • 1 Tbsp heaping spoon of Cassia cinnamon
  • 3/4 cup water

Instructions

  • Make bread by mixing flour, water, salt, yeast for at least 7 minutes or until it comes together and passes the slapping water stage to build up gluten.
  • Let proof for at least 1-2 hours at room temperature in a covered bowl lined with oil to keep the dough moist. TIP: use the same pan you will bake in and you'll have one less sticky dough item to clean up. Use a round cake pan for round cinnamon rolls and a square pan for squarish rolls.
  • Roll dough out then roll up into a log (or that looks like a sleeping bag).
  • Cut into even slices with cooking thread or dental floss. You can also use a serated knife to not smush down the buns that you want to rise.
  • Place rolls with swirls up in baking pan and bake on 350°F until deeper or dark golden brown for about 45 minutes so the bottoms and all is baked through. Optional shine: Add egg white wash when almost done baking (and/or glaze after baking and cooling). You can also add honey to tops after baked and cooled.

Notes

Dough too wet? If your dough seems to wet when you've been kneading a few minutes, add a little flour back. You can use any bench (e.g. all purpose or bread flour). 
Dough too dry? If your dough seems shaggy dry, add a little more water 1 teaspoon at a time as needed until you get a smooth consistency that slides off th dough hook.
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Kind Smile Costs Nothing (and is everything)

Kind is described in so many ways. At the least, it’s being gentle, caring, and helpful. Those are all conversations that come from the heart (depicted on this wall where we’re like the colorful hearts sending out messages of kindness). 💛🩵♥️💙🤍

Be kind wall filled with conversation hearts.

Others feel your kind (and your kind kind) in your energy and overflow without you saying a word.

All you need is a sincere outward expression to show your non-verbal kindness.

A smile does this to make a warm first impression. 🙂 😀

Because when you’re an ambassador of sorts, represent an office, or have been in position longer than another newcomer, the newbie feels judged if they smile and you don’t smile back

It doesn’t matter if the other has more years or experience than you if he/she just sat down after you in a shared new space…

And it doesn’t matter your mind was elsewhere or absent-minded when you looked at them once and again…

Your gift for the day could be a smile or a smile back.

If the other person feels unloved or unwelcomed in a place unfamiliar, that easily trips insecurities and an ego mind when meeting eye-to-eye.

The unwelcomed feeling other wonders:

“Am I not good enough?”

“Did I do something wrong?”

“Do they not like me?”

“Does this person have a chip on their shoulder?”

“Do I avoid this person and keep my distance?”

They doubt themselves in some subconscious way… and then they also doubt you.

We live in a world of doubt already.

In their moments of doubt, the other person could remember you later for the wrong reasons even if it’s just a chance one-time meeting.

None are the loving and kind impressions or neutral interactions that were intended (where we need more love in this world). 💞

And when you smile greet to a newbie or stranger someone, they don’t remember you badly… or at all.

That’s the kind impression and peace we want to leave for most we encounter.

Be kind. 💕

…Going out of your way to be the smiling kind when you’re going out in the big wide world surroundings.

Going out is a leveling field.

We’re all just people with feelings inside.

Even those who don’t appear to care or are acting a bit nuts… and those on magazine covers or big platforms.

We only see snippets of people’s lives.

And we want to plant good karma in our travels.

Annddd a smile is a good way.

But most people don’t do it often.

And if it’s something you’re interested in trying more of…

It’s easy to build into your habits.

Practice by warming up your smile after your coffee and breakfast. As you’re getting dressed, exercise your face muscles as you look in the mirror. If putting lip balm on is a habit, you can do it again then.

And plant another smile before you exit your door. Leave your previous part of the day (and disappointing parts of the season you’re in) at the door.

If you’re a veteran to the places you’re entering or where you’re going on a certain day, be the one to smile first.

When eyes meet with others, turn the frown upside down to everyone who has done no immediate wrong.

This is your chance to show the world your kind side and a reminder that you’re sharing space with others.

You’ll feel better when you go back to your home realities… that you contributed to the world that day without even having to say a word.

…And even if you recently lost your job, have an ongoing health battle, and are dealing with financial or family problems.

Everyone has something or some thingsss in life they’re dealing with.

Not smiling when given opportunities doesn’t make those (in your life) better.

You free yourself when you enter the world smiling and those around you know none of this.

Play a little game with yourself, take your work-errand task list less seriously, and see how often you can offer your kind smile gesture first.

…For no other reason than so that others have no reason to doubt themselves and can feel good someone thought they were worth smiling at.

…and you gain more confidence (and feel less shy) if that’s what you need.

If a stranger beats us to the friendly smile first, be open to what the world is offering up in this encounter…

And kindly mirroring back…

That we matter.

And that we’re in this thing (Life) together.

Isn’t that the deepest connection and way to make impact in our fragile world?

Just by stepping outside.

…Of our comfort zones sometimes.

Where a kind smile requires little… and offers a lot not having to go far on our planet to give and make positive impact.

You and I can be the kind kind. And the world we cherish will be just fine.

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Fika Happy Break Today

Fika is a concept in Sweden for a coffee break. And that in America has gotten smaller as coffee is all-day brewing.

This was a cappuccino Fika moment ☕️ I enjoyed in Gothenburg, Sweden.

Fika cappuccino moment in Sweden where the concept began.

Fika has grown to mean so much more about life.

Especially post-2020.

Those humbling, bittersweet years wherever you were on the planet grew you no matter what age you were.

We can now all look back…

To then when you got more you-experiences discovering more about yourself with change of routines… and as you interrupted your usual patterns.

And in more recent years, you found your groove back and learned tips for healthy balanced living.

You and I can appreciate what we have better, today.

You can now live the 80/20 real life vs. digital world that we dreamed of and no longer in Zoom fatigue settlement.

But those growing years gave us new insight. You don’t wanna lose all the good you developed from 2020.

And you can lean into a couple Fika points reminders:

-still slow down and make time to take a daily break (you can use you won’t get this day back as a self-reminder). Slowing down allows for new ideas to break through from the space break opportunity you carve out.

-appreciate daily simple joys and small happy pleasures (…maybe sweets 🍥?), healthy snacks and beverages.

Ok, one more…

– maintain some quiet time that can include reading, journaling, yoga, meditation, or enjoying sitting still with a cup of coffee and your soul. And if you dare, listen to your spirit.

This gets us away from love and into the noisy gong and clanging cymbal of the world that’s full of fear.

Silence is where you can hear the love whispers that’s inside each of us.

And then breaking out of silence or Fika moments, you want to immerse yourself in life to appreciate life.

You may have remembered not too long ago when an employee usually older than you said they were going on a coffee break and then disappeared.

That idea disappeared…

And so did the idea of driving out of your way to find a pot of coffee in America. It was helpful not to be a coffee drinker as you’d be in a diner or a 7-11. Coffee was more a morning ritual only.

These days coffee counters are everywhere in any metro suburban area, so people have re-appeared and coffee culture is running all day.

…Sometimes we even spend all day at a coffee shop balancing real life and our devices that we’re on. The digital nomad is not a new concept and finding fika is a way of living.

Years before I took on this lifestyle, I was getting inspired sitting and people watching where some of the famous writers like Ernest Hemingway and Jean-Paul Satre sat in a famous cafe.

That was doing fika compared to people hovering over a coffee machine that has replaced the office water cooler.

These days in America, everyone is armed with their own water-filled water bottles.

And then back at home…

Making coffee is a Fika opportunity to slow down and feel joy breaks.

Since modern research shows coffee as anti-inflammatory, it’s aligned with mind-body connection happy and healthy… that’s naturally in the coffee caffeine.

Coffee caffeine is especially a healthy energy alternative to caffeinated sodas that have too much unhealthy sugar.

But I think it’s good to get the sugar hype out of the system when you’re younger when your body isn’t so critical about what you consume…

Sodas was my breakfast starting out journey… that was later replaced with morning coffee and writing that aligned hand-in-hand with blogging. 📝

…And I’m sure you have your own beverage journey that aligned with your growing ways.

My daily routine is cold brew as less harsh/lower acidity and less bitter if that matters to you and your body. Cold brew vs. iced coffee are not the same thing.

It takes about as much effort to make a. cup of cold brew (as using a coffee machine), so maybe that’s something to consider. 💭

You can easily learn how to make a perfect cold brew coffee you’ll enjoy!… that’s even your younger inner child could have made years ago (but maybe stayed away from bitter). 😀

…Or maybe that could have been a similar story line in your green tea journey where you didn’t start off liking the bitter leaves.

…and now can tolerate (or prefer with your 180 degree changes as you change… or since your tea was better prepared in the lower 180 degree water temp 😀).

Which btw if tea is your jam, a tea break or afternoon tea is another Fika way to slow down. It’s not all about coffee anymore.

And maybe it’s plain water or healthy water drinks or you’re looking for new inspo for a few anti-inflammatory, healthy dry January drink, or tea ideas.

These can all be part of the Fika in the afternoon.

In America, we call this an afternoon snack break where America is home of the snacks. 🇺🇸 You can go into any size grocery store and see aisles full.

And you can healthy challenge yourself to make home healthy snacks to also slow down and relax.

Relaxed, you get to change your rhythm and feel the happy effects that lead to an overall productive day or Part 2 of your day.

Some light sweet or savory snacks for your Fika could be all you need to keep going in the right direction for your day:

Some ideas: try a one-bowl low-sugar chocolate chip oatmeal cookie that’ll do the sweet satiating trick over cravings. Or a healthier cinnamon roll  or a buckwheat ginger snap cookie. Buckwheat is gluten-free, btw.

And maybe Fika tea party?… with the  best way to make chai that you can pair with no-bake chai balls. Leave the cooking and baking for another time.

You can add Swedish-inspired savory Fika smorgas (open faced sandwiches).

You can make a healthy microgreen einkorn sandwich bread platter version mixing the growing microgreen culture (that I barely remember grew outta the alfalfa sprouts craze 🌱).

In catering, we called these finger sandwiches on a platter that always were a hit. The crusts were cut off.

And for similar effects, you can also leave the sandwiches open (smorgas) for less bread ratio.

Smorgas is different than a smorgasboard.  That means sandwich table.

…Which wich is not just one sandwich!

Smorgasbord today as we know is a buffet (table) in American culture.

That’s the more-is-more approach.

With Fika, you can master the art of enjoyment that leads to contentment, and appreciate less-is-more with a light and balanced table.

Blend this with coffee culture and tea blends, and you have a daily reason to celebrate… and be grateful for the simple things that happened (and the bad ones that didn’t).

And simply appreciate this moment. ⏳

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