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7 Effective Gym Habits For New Year’s

Intended effective gym habits can begin in a new year and die before February 1. Don’t let that be YOU in the upcoming year. Make this year and better and different that it deserves as you’re a better, more resilient person.

The usual drill…

Welcoming in the first week of the year with effective gym habits is the intent, where many of us think of new personal, health, and fitness goals. In my mind, I think of the end goal that comes from 7 habits of highly effective people that can be applied to life. But not always effect in fitness areas…

Because most people don’t like to workout. That’s the first hurdle. Especially if you prefer to work or play instead of work out (I know the feeling!). At times, working out can add more stress if you don’t have a routine down.

But, if you prioritize, practice and adopt doing regular habits (great for Vata balancing)… and they are habits you enjoy, that could be a game changer to effective habits. Let that be the new year mantra or philosophy you breathe in…

OUT with ancient new year’s resolutions, and IN with inspiring habits for your betterment, progress, and self-improvement goals.

Simple steps like attending a Gold’s Gym (my fond memories) or similar, and doing at-home ab exercises regularly can help get you into healthy physical body habits with good results if you choose successful ways that help you, explained below…

Inspired by 7 habits of highly effective people who are proactive in their lives and begin with the end in mind, these are 7 effective habit traits (and what it boils down to), to embrace ideas that can turn into action and help set you up for success.

I think these ways make habits easier to adopt, and you can apply to any area you want to have continued success in.

So, applying these traits will help you with training to stay active and healthy fit for the year and keep effective gym habits for life.

Effective Habit Traits Inspired By 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

1. New – highly effective people consider and embrace new ideas, challenging the status quo or current norm. They keep everything fresh and have a learning and growth mindset. They think “today is a brand, new day” to do something better, remarkable, or impactful.

2. Variety – they spice up life with more than one way or choice. This can be from food to finding new inspiration or a new route. If they did it one way, they try another way to keep things exciting.

3. Fun or exciting – they have fun doing what they do. If you’re enjoying yourself, then you’re more likely to keep doing what you’re doing. Laughter is a good indicator that you’re engaged. Remember when you were a kid, and that’s what got you going?… just good, innocent fun.

4. Usefulness – they know how to be productive with their time, and highly effective people spend time working on activities that are useful and not a waste of time.  There’s a next step, where there’s personal growth, observable impact, or serves others.

5. Practical – they turn ideas into action and use resources they have access to, and keep going. They don’t let excuses keep them from moving forward. Relevance guides them to their next steps and pivots.

6. Getting better – they look for progress. They know that if it’s not getting better, that it could be getting worse. They look for signs of growth, impact, and healthiness.

7. Easy – they keep it simple and uncomplicated. They know if it’s easy, then it’s doable. There won’t be delay and “easy” can be duplicable and scalable to perform in other ways.

So now here’s how can you embrace and select 1-2 of these 7 ideas into your personal fitness or exercise life and routine: Continue reading “7 Effective Gym Habits For New Year’s”

Winter Allergies – 11 Tips + Celestial Seasonings Tea

 

Winter allergies are the worse. I don’t remember them growing up.

But these climate change days, they are common for many like myself.

This or every winter, you may feel like you have cotton stuffed up your nose, head, face, or even in your ears. Allergies and winter allergies especially are no fun.

You may even get annoying chest congestion, that starts when you wake up and then once you get going, annoyingly disrupts an otherwise good day.

This article is all about what you can do to have a better winter season, facing winter allergies. Read all 11 tips, as they’re all golden to keep you fit and healthy.

Dryness aggravates allergies, so here are some simple moisture tips:

1. Invest in a small humidifier for every room or place you spend time in.

If you’re a Vata, then dryness is something you face regularly, literally on your face (or scalp), and probably on your cracking hands and sandpaper feet. Winter only aggravates dryness. You need a daily winterizing self-care regimen.

You may find yourself wanting to moisturize your rougher face more often.  Or do glycolic exfoliation, and facial mask pampering.  I have my favorites, but this article is about allergies, so I’ll try to stay on topic 😊

Keeping your body moist with non-fancy products such as Eucerin lotion and pure aloe (clear or Kermit frog green), will help. Every little tidbit helps to keep you calm and your winter allergies, tame.

When I was growing up, humidifiers were these relatively expensive, bulky, and loud machines that took up floor space. And if you’re a decorator, there was no way to dress up the eyesore.

Nowadays you can buy a sleek, inexpensive humidifier at your favorite variety or everything stores like Marshall’s or Home Goods. Table humidifiers are usually less than $20 and if cleaned regularly, you can use them year after year.  Many table humidifiers have glowing neon changing color lights that you can turn on for fun and add cool brightness to your day… we all need that!

You can complement a running humidifier with a Vicks Vapor Rub, that contains camphor, menthol, and eucalyptus. I like that it can open up your nasal passages and wake up a Kapha imbalance if you gently sniff. As the name implies, it’s meant to be rubbed on your skin, and so can help chest congestion

For winter allergies/chest congestion:

2. Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV) steaming before you shower. You can do this over a pot on the stove. This is the best thing for chest congestion (coughing up mucus), or if you feel a heaviness to your chest that seems to come on when the weather starts to cool.

Take apple cider vinegar and boil/steam with a water mixture. Inhale and exhale through your mouth so you can deliver directly to your chest. Add more water in the beginning as the vinegar can have a stinging feeling.  Then you know that you’re doing something good.

I recommend doing this before you take a shower, as the apple cider vinegar has a strong odor, that can linger on you and your clothes, and be repulsive to a sensitive Vata.

Thankfully it’s easily washed off by taking a shower. If you are highly congested, performing this practice once or twice per day is good. You want to nip it in the bud, so your chest congestion goes away after a few days. It may come back, but then you may only have to perform weekly or bi-weekly. The longer you let it go on, the longer it stays.

I don’t use the good ACV for steaming, as it will be wasted in evaporation. If you only have the expensive or organic ACV, with the mother (the good milky stuff) that’s good for ingestion, just don’t shake up the ACV bottle, and let the mother stay on the bottom.

Keep doing the other ACV tips and neti pot regimens recommended for fall allergies and ragweed allergiesContinue reading “Winter Allergies – 11 Tips + Celestial Seasonings Tea”

8 Ways to Avoid Stress Eating Anxiety and Holiday Stress

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Stress eating can be real anxiety for the best of us (that can easily become a bad habit).

Feeling anxious from a negative thought can cause overeating and shoveling food into our mouths. This feeds our natural desire to enjoy pleasure. But then we regret our decision the next day, as it shows up on our body and then can turn into anxious body thoughts (in the mind-body connection).

Below are some ways to break the stress-eating vicious cycle, especially around the winter holidays.

Especially in December, we can’t avoid messages about the new year being around the corner, that brings awareness to what we need to do to finish up the year, and then that reminds us of the hoopla of what happened and disappointments of what hasn’t yet.  We just want peace, joy, and love.

By no fault of your own, holiday anxieties can be triggered in your mind-body, and aggravate stress eating as a comforting behavior that disturbs healthy living aspirations.

One way you can start to change this is to find a healthy set of friends (or a virtual community) who will support you and you can share your successful moments with. Choose these optimistic friends over complainers. You want to leave your near-year ending on a sweet (not sour) high note.  Stay encouraged, growing, believing, and finding new year inspiration.

On that note, I have some holiday stress management encouragement…

Because we all bear some kind of stress as humans. At a bare minimum, you may have been thrown a few monkey wrenches within the year and an uneventful holiday ending.

You may have thought you’ve had enough, and you would just coast the rest of the year and take time off, and then something suddenly came up. You’re asked to make an off-course decision or two, be more creative than you’ve been (thinking outside the box), and work harder in your uphill climb despite facing ups and downs.

You’re not alone.

Look on the brighter side of things, you’re needed and you have a chance to make an impact in some unique way.

Those you-matter thoughts help your inner peace, that you can get back and are just a few steps away in your meditation practice, prayer life, or relaxed walk.

By a simple choice, you can change your mind and attitude just like that if you want to, despite your feelings or moods.

You always feel better than you did after the fact. You never know what thoughts and ideas are on the other side, but the time you put in is rewarded.

You’re better off if you find some way to be optimistic, even if it’s just borrowing a belief. Sometimes you have to just do it, to adopt a new way.

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Recently I was tasked to virtually decorate my Zoom screen background for a holiday meetup… those are common this year, right?

I don’t how you feel about yourself in a digital world, but coming up with a digital holiday background isn’t in my go-to wheelhouse bag of tricks, and maybe not in yours either. So I dug deep and basically looked around (…isn’t that how we were resourceful when we were younger?), and that led me to bring out the soft felted stockings and artificial decorations from the Christmas storage bin.

I’m an arts and crafts type. As a scrapbooker, I like handmade, decorating with brads and ribbons, and the whole nine yards for anything you can touch and feel… Continue reading “8 Ways to Avoid Stress Eating Anxiety and Holiday Stress”

Good Butt Exercises and Overall Body Impact

Good butt exercises (or glute exercises) are the most impactful for overall body.

Learn why that is and what you can do about getting your derriere in shape below…

Improve glute exercises with certain gym machines.

 

If you’ve ever been to physical therapy, the approach to restorative body healing uses repetitive movements, such as core, arm, leg, and glute exercises.

Like yoga, physical therapy exercises are healthy and help to increase your flexibility, strength, and balance.

When you’re not healing from an injury, your body is malleable and wants YOU to work out.

That’s our natural way, like horses and greyhound dogs that are born to race.

If they’re not galloping and running, they’ve lost the opportunity to do what they’re happily born to do.  We as humans, similarly are naturally meant to think, be and do.

When we take the opportunity to get active and move, we gain energy and better our health, and that makes us feel better.

If your body could speak, it would say, “put me to work.”But your mind shares back, “I don’t feel like it,”…and then that puts an end to your physical activity. Your mind wins and you actually lose in that moment.

But if you could convince your mind that exercise is easy, effortless… oh, and fun! …whoaa, that could be a game-changer, and your mind, body and you could all be on the same page.

I’ve found (and maybe you agree), that if you find an easy, almost effortless, and rewarding routine, then you would continue doing (like your lifelong healthy eating diet plan)…

On that mission, I discovered some good butt exercises (described below), that give our overall delicate bodies, better results with little effort, that never gets old, and help you stay young and ageless.

Not to mention, the benefit of exercising without a gym.  You can do these exercises when you just need a break (instead of opening the fridge for a snack or when you want to watch a few minutes of television).

If you do get to the gym… we love our gyms! then be sure to make use of the expensive and well-maintained machines.

Good Butt Exercises For Impact

Let’s start with your glute muscles. Your largest muscles are in your gluteus maximus (butt) and quadriceps (lower thigh just above your knees).

One of the best machines you can use is the leg press machine that stretches both, using weight.

This will give a killer toned bottom… and are the best butt exercises you can do to fit in your favorite jeans!

If you have access to a gym, then take advantage of that. It’s a machine that looks like a recumbent bike with a big rectangle attached at the end where your feet will rest.

If you don’t have any specific leg or knee weaknesses (or injuries), start at more pounds than you would with arm weights.

As a female, I comfortably lift 20 pounds total for dumb bell arm weights, and lifting 5 times that for my legs. Starting a little lower is safe and smart, but that gives you some idea.

That’s because your glutes are strong muscles and are used regularly every time you get up and down.

It’s doable even if you’re a 100-120 pound female (I’ve tested). It’s possible to increase the leg weight above your actual weight. That’s how powerful your leg and butt muscles are.

At first, I recommend trying this for 2-3 repetitions of 10 press exercises (20-30 total), but don’t get on this machine every day.

Once or twice per week and giving yourself some rest is good for any muscle group.

If you’re unsure of the weight, you can always start with less weight such as 55-80 lbs, and gradually increase as you warmup.

Ideally, the next day from this butt and leg workout, you should feel something, or a slight tightness, but be able to fully move without pain or any inability. You want to test your experience, and gradually increase weight.

If you find you feel zero soreness the next day, don’t be too shy to add an extra 10 pounds for the leg press, as you want to challenge your muscles in a good way.

Lifting weights has different exercise goals than say yoga.  Both have developing strength goals, but in yoga, you’re using your body weight so you can also focus on stretching, flexibility, and balance.

In weight training, you want to be careful because you can hurt yourself (if you don’t stay focused on your deliberate and safe movements).

Without using weights in yoga, like say in Fish Pose where your head is hanging backward, you can still hurt yourself, as you’re holding up your 10-20 pound head. So you still want to test and check your body form in yoga.

At Home Overall and Good Glute Exercises 

If you don’t have access to a gym (sometimes I didn’t) or it’s not convenient, you can discover great at-home exercises like I did.

You can do this for the leg press exercises I mentioned above, without a machine.

You can do these impactful glute exercises against a wall. You would want to do more repetitions for the same or greater results than on the machine.

To start, my first tip is to invest in a set of dumbbell weights if you don’t already own a pair.

It’s a vital tool for building strength. I use 10-pound weights that I recommend for your first set of weights. You can grow into them.

For lighter weights, you can get creative and use items like full water bottles.

Ten-pound weights come in handy also if you want to prop a door open and don’t have a stopper, or you need to flatten out a rolled-up poster or rug. …Just some additional multi-purpose ideas!

But back to the leg press exercise… you can stand against a closed door that I recommend so you don’t accidentally make scruff marks on the wall. (Doors are usually painted with a heavier duty, shinier gloss paint.)

So then up against the wall or door, bend your knees so that your legs and feet form a 90 degree right angle to the floor.

It’s okay to be greater than 90 degrees like 110 degrees, but not less than 90 degrees to protect parts of your body. Aren’t you so glad you learned geometry in school (…remember the protractor tool?).

Then re-check and be sure your back is completely flat to the door or wall so you have full support.

And from there, also check to see if you can see your toes (you want to make sure they’re not behind your knees).

Then once you have the right form, move up and down against the door or wall, with your arms and hands naturally hanging down by your side (and looking straight ahead).

When you first start off, just get used to the motion without weights, and then you can add a water bottle or a lightweight on each hand.

Then gradually add more weight, like the 10-pound weights.

If you want to make an impact on your body, you’ll want to add at least the 10-pound weights when you’re ready.

The other alternative to this at-home leg press exercise is to lay flat on your back.

Get in a 90-degree angle with your back/butt to the floor and rest your feet on a wall or solid piece of furniture (about 1-2 feet off the ground).

Then, push hard into the wall or solid surface.

It won’t be as good on your glutes as the leg press machine, but you’ll get some resistance like a leg press.

And for daily maintenance, get your steps in and take the stairs instead of the elevator. That will help you maintain your butt exercises and get ready for the next time you’re hiking a mountain or using a good butt exercise machine.

Sixteen Candles and Balancing Aromatherapy Healing Scents

This is more than 16 candles, it’s closer to 66 candles!

Sixteen Candles was one of the coming-of-age comedy genre movies that existed during the Brat Pack Days. If you don’t know what that is or means, don’t worry ‘bout it… if you’re interested in candles and aromatherapy healing, you’re in the right place.

And if you haven’t seen the 80’s classic movie, the Actress Molly Ringwald played the slightly quirky and embarrassed teenager who had a crush on the most popular boy in the school.

Her family forgets her 16th birthday around the planning of her sister’s wedding and all kinds of family chaos. With her signature pouty mouth and rolled eyes typical of  teenagers (…remember those rebellious years?), her character, Samantha, says it all in this one line… “this is the single worst day of my entire life.”

Because when you’re a teenager everything is so magnified and important.

…Long story short, the movie has a sweet ending that includes birthday candles.

You and I have long passed our sweet 16th birthdays, and have created so many memories since. Whether yours was uneventful or memorable, you’ve survived.

And you can choose to live each day like a happy birthday if you’re doing and being well.

I was able to relive my fond memories by bringing out these bright cotton candy pink, white, sunny yellow, and navy blue candles, that have special meaning to me. They’re the ones you can find at the dollar stores. They were also the ones I saw on many kids’ birthday cakes.

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…maybe you have a similar or favorite birthday memory that brings happy nostalgia feelings?

As an adult, you can make your own great memories, and that’s something to celebrate. One way I do regularly in joy and celebration is with scented candles that create a happier mood.

Scented candles can be healing for your soul. The light’s warmth and the aromatherapy effects, positively affect your mind and moods. Candles are powerful and healing. They can define a practice in a special way. You could be meditating, journaling, or just creating a new room atmosphere.

Sixteen Candles

These are my favorite balancing sixteen candles, that are easy to find online or at stores, and come in all shapes and sizes.  There’s also one called “Birthday Cake” that smells like yellow or vanilla cake batter (similar to Christmas Cookie), but I think that candle is retired.

  1. Sand + Fog candles Limoncello
  2. Sand + Fog Mango Tangerine
  3. Yankee Candle Christmas Cookie
  4. Yankee Candle Vanilla Cupcake
  5. Yankee Candle Juicy Citrus and Sea Salt
  6. Yankee Candle Belgian Waffles
  7. Yankee Candle Sugar & Spice
  8. Yankee Candle Tangerine
  9. Yankee Candle French Vanilla
  10. Yankee Candle Pumpkin Pie
  11. Village Candle Orange Dreamsicle – orange and vanilla candles have special powers over anxiety.  If you don’t smell them or they’re sickenly sweet then it’s a good indicator that you’re Vata balanced overall at the moment… or if you never liked those scents, that’s not your natural dosha.
  12. Yankee Candle Fresh Cut Roses
  13. Yankee Candle Lemon Lavender
  14. Yankee Candle Mistletoe
  15. Yankee Candle Balsam and Cedar
  16. Yankee Candle Sparkling Cinnamon

“Continue reading” for more aromatherapy option ideas and some photos of my personal, fun favorites 🙂
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