Work-Life Balance is the way for daily joy and a recipe for daily joy helps too… Like this Almond Joy Smoothie reminiscent of the candy bar you grew up to without the calories and lower sugar.
These days, workers are choosing work-life balance, joy, self-care, and wellness. One healthy reminder and easy way is with an avocado plant. The steps are below to grow from a simple seed. 🌱
Those small ideas help with daily joy as some are consciously walking off the job for their personal lives, health, and safety.
You have to be your cheerleading advocate and make your best decisions for work-life balance.
I know this from my almost two decades in DC working for Corporate America in tech companies, associations, and hotels run like corporate with little time balance.
(Reminder that you only get this one life).
And happiness at the end of the rainbow or sprinkles is something we all identify with and define differently.
In my early workdays, I soon realized happy employees don’t quit good companies and jobs.
The motto used to be, “it’s hard to find a good employee,” and that seems to have shifted to: it’s hard to find a good employer. The roles are reversing in our evolving society to a more balanced approach.
How it pans out is revealed only after you take a job. Most jobs begin great.
Like most relationships, where there’s the honeymoon period. And then the cracks become clear. You wouldn’t enter a bad one knowingly.
The 2021 Great Resignation trend became a more defined movement with dissatisfied employees quitting.
It’s not just one reason, but at the top of the list are better life and care, and overall work-life balance dissatisfaction (work misery, burnout, lack of employee care or concern, being pushed to the limit in work demands… and sadly, work toxicity, harassment, and bullying). Often these areas get brushed under the rug.
I know in my many management experiences, I often questioned demands, decisions, and lack of attention from the-powers-that-be, with no satisfying answers.
Sales was a happier place to be because the role empowered me to make opportunities happen. And those were the good management jobs where I felt like a productive workhorse.
But not everyone is cut out for that work or the one they’re in.
Finding a good job these days is a diamond in the rough. And most are tough and will probably get more demanding before it gets better. So what can you do about a better work-life balance in those situations?
Lessons Learned: Creating Better Work-Life Balance and Happiness
As humans we have to find some joy in our lives, or we can break. Getting up in dread over our work is no way to live. And not having work stability is another tough place to be.
I’d been through the washing machine spin cycle (I thought), several times as an adult – starting at the bottom again after career switching and experiencing massive corporate layoffs.
In the post-2008 economy fallout, many industries fell apart like the one I was in.
I went through years of the next phase (the drying machine years) where I found daily joy in the small things. Like a nice cup of chai tea. Or journaling. Seeing friends and volunteering.
And that’s how I ended up back to my hospitality roots where I left off and new opportunities existed (and now in life’s roll-of-the-dice 2020 uncertainty, is the industry that has been impacted the most).
Entering the dryer process lasted until the appointed time. I lost track of my age, as days turned to months. And then years.
I discovered contentment means happiness (and not what the strong-armed negative side of ego feeds you with baloney and leaves you with negative energy).
True happiness and peace is from within and at the moment in the daily joy. You look out for it (and you can miss it in life’s noise and busyness).
I also learned patience (a virtue) in an impatient culture where Patience is a bad word. And where people show their impatience on the road and is part of the get-ahead mentality. People are irritated and angry and don’t realize it’s in the air. No judgment.
Love thy neighbor. We only see snapshots of people in time, and each person has the freedom and accountability to their own lives.
…and btw, have you noticed that when you purposefully let others go ahead of you in line, then deep down, you feel better that you’re sending good karma in the world. Your angel poofs out the ego critic.
Depending on how often you think to do kind acts, this can be your way or standard.
The more you practice, the more it becomes what you see in the mirror and your daily habits. And you feel the difference between good and icky. It can be counter-cultural as we’re taught to try and be first, but you can realize where there’s misalignment between giving and getting.
And, you and I who are wiser, are looking to create more impact in this world and our lives.
We can connect the dots and letting go of disconnects, doing shadow work from our past so we can live our best life now or at least start the process.
For me, that starts in flow, getting in Happy Baby Pose, working out the neck and body kinks, and getting intentional in daily purpose.
Something to fit in today at home if you need a suggestion.
…So, during the unfulfilling season (about a decade ago) after I started my yoga and quiet practices, I could find deep gratitude, contentment, be patient, and let go of judgment and complaining attitudes.
And that became my way. It wasn’t in the things I had or didn’t have. It was a choice.
As with most things, it was in the missing pieces I had to search for and figure out.
Today, I’m grateful for that long season. The practices and attitudes I adopted help define who I am.
And while that was happening, healthier options and new digital resources are available to us today (something else to be grateful for).
These days, it’s hard to be bored, and very easy to get distracted and not listening to our thoughts.
Growing up we found activities with a radio, television, and books. And that was a lot compared to my parents age who grew up on less book options and radio only.
There was no streaming (live or not) or doing online research… I know it’s hard to think of life without!…right?
I believe whatever time you were born into isn’t going wasted.
You were born for the exact right moment that works with you and what you’re meant to do, and that you can make the most of every day in a joyful way.
On that brighter note…