Transformation change such as changes in identity (and realizing that you won’t go back to past and old identities that no longer serve you) lead to personal growth and purpose… if you look deeper within.
That’s what this article is about.
And I believe what this Life is meant for (…while enjoying the perks and good foods that our living planet offers). 🎉
Consider: why would you stay the same as you started as an adult? Especially if you weren’t all that happy in your humble adult beginnings or in your childhood.
Now is your chance to step into the life you deserve and finding your authentic purpose.
That what experience and getting older helps with.
You know the better way now compared to even a few years ago in any growth areas of life that you pay attention to and put intention into.
As adults, one transformation change identity we all grow out of is our childhood identity as a rite of passage.
With more years, we gain wisdom.
Accumulated wisdom develops transformation change.
As you don’t always do what culture asks you to do, but you do what is good and good for you.
You grow away from what everyone is doing as your boss.
You become your own boss.
This can be in personal life matters and business or work.
With the transformation change, you get free to live life differently than the past… making healthy changes in your pivots and start overs.
And the positive changes grow as they last the rest of your life unless you change them.
👉 The no-regret smart way is see that our past led us to better discoveries and our ways today. We are who and we are today BECAUSE of our past that got here. Nothing was wasted.
And that keeps us fearless and pressing onward.
Because making a radical transformation change takes guts.
And being open to life not being what you thought starting out.
Life is the new teacher.
And life is meant to teach you what you’re here for.
The process and year is how you discover what that is…
For me, that became evident when I had life problems in every balance wheel of life area that gave me my first gray hair stress sign at 25. That was not a wisdom hair.
…I didn’t know where to turn.
So that set me on a quest to seek answers and a transformation change and transformational path that I may not have entered otherwise.
And when those problems gradually resolved (that felt like took forever at the time), new season circumstances and challenges took their place.
It was the problems that got me to transformation change. I realized I felt like I was missing something.
When I looked down, all the body parts were there.
My mind was working.
And long story short, I learned that there was a part of me I never knew.
My instincts were as close to this part as I could describe.
But it became more important as life unraveled.
It became my identity as instincts are guiding you toward your destiny and who you will become.
Questioning life is always good… because there’s nothing more important in life than life.
Asking often: am I on the right path?
To get on the right path, I wondered: if everything today is going to be yesterday tomorrow and not matter as much then what is the meaning of this life?
And I realized that the external and everything we see is fleeting.
External things are a temporary vantage point.
We carry us and our vantage point everywhere we go, even on vacations.
The honeymoon happy feelings wear off.
Fleeting happy feelings and getting stuff keep us moving ahead in life until we’re more mature, so we can handle more and get to the fulfilling, fruit bearing stuff that become our life passions in ripe timing.
And that’s where a transformation change into your deeper spiritual sides grows you.
It’s the deeper discovery within and above you that will bring the joy on Life’s journey. And life transformations are the vehicles.
And if ever stuck, we can ask the Universe to help us with our intentions: can you take me higher?
Reminds me of the song lyrics in “Higher” by Creed:
At sunrise I fight to stay asleep, cause I don’t want to leave the comfort of this place, ‘cause there’s a hunger, a longing to escape.
It’s a choice to get insight from our higher selves. This accelerates growth and in areas that may never grow if we stay doing life the same way we’ve always done.
One healthy way is to embrace transformation change. You will change and that’s a great thing!
Don’t listen to those who want to keep you behind, the same, at their same speed.
Listen to the deeper wisdom that’s the higher path.
Those will lead to the highest purposes for our lives here on earth. And you’re only accountable for yourself for your entire life.
I used to be afraid deeper spiritual change would lead me to a life I would hate doing (or life as a martyr), but trust led to letting go… and grander things than I could have imagined.
I’m so much better than when I started my adult journey. There are big life areas where I’m wondering what will happen next like you and everyone else in their life.
And I know I’ll grow more in my transformation change.
There’s no magic age where purpose aligns in our lives, but the sooner we reach up and out, the sooner we get to leave our former caterpillar identities we started out as.
We get to transform to butterflies sooner and enjoy the sweet nectar and honey that comes along.
In yoga terms, we can go from looking down to the ground in caterpillar pose to opening up in butterfly pose and choosing to look out and up.
That’s the wise growth path I know and I hope that helps you on your journey. 🌱 Keep going and growing!
