Rumination is something I know a lot about. It’s a form of overthinking and worry that can come from deep-rooted fears.
Feeling fear is an opportunity for your (subconscious) ego to get a hold of your thoughts and mind.
…That can keep you playing small in your precious life that you’re the star in 🌟and uniquely play out.
Opposing efforts are the ego fears showing up that are the opposite of love. …And loving thoughts and actions.
…So cutting them out is a good personal growth mission.
And that’s not something you would likely have learned in school or in your work life. And actually, probably picked up more ego behaviors along the way than pushed them aside.
But when you get to the bottom of your fears and you’re aware in conscious living in your life journey, that can help you conquer fears.
…That lets you have more love to give. And when you love yourself (first), then that invites in more love you can offer to the world in abundant ways and mindset.
Sometimes you end up going down unproductive storyline rabbit trails that turn into a negative spiral loop. That’s when you want to reset… or else risk staying stuck.
Resetting our minds by taking a walk, getting on a yoga mat, journaling, flipping the script, replacing thoughts, or doing other productive exercises are healthy intentional steps.
Because bad thoughts are usually counterproductive in some way. And negative (unloving) thoughts always hurt.
But taking a few mindful present thought moments can help the reset. When you pause and take a deep breather… you have a small window to make a positive micro shift adjustment in your day.
Because deep breathing in and out sends fresh oxygen to the mind, resets the body, and helps clean out the cobwebs from growing in the soul… 💨
The soul is at the seat of your mind, will (choices), and emotions that are deep within the body.
You can invite in your spirit to help lighten the load.
But not all of us do.
You get to exercise that right (choice).
Taking deep breaths is a good habit, reminder, and first step.
It’s also a natural cure for uncontrollable heart palpitations that can come from anxiety.
If you’re a natural Vata body (Ayurvedic dosha), you know exactly how that feels in you as you’ve lived it throughout your life. And those around you with similar bodies, have too.
And when you do deep breathing exercises like 4-7-8 breathing, counting is even easier than yoga or meditating.
It’s an empowering habit you can do anytime and anywhere.
And that helps to counteract triggered rumination thoughts that appear in your day out of nowhere…
That’s this life… where at any moment when life is in play, anything can happen.
And this article may be useful to add more calm in your life by making aware of your ruminating thoughts occupying daily space.
You can tell them to take a hike and make them go away sooner. 😊
…Because it is up to you!
And that should feel good.
Even if and especially if you’re naturally more of a thinker and you like to analyze situations.
You’re often impacted more by rumination thoughts because you tend to get inside your head.
…It’s not your fault or anyone’s fault for how you were naturally built.
That’s what sets you and I apart from animals and our plant-based world we nicely co-exist with.
And to use our higher and super powers to rule our planet for good, we need healthy mindset practices.
So that for unsettled situations, our minds will search for better answers.
We can bypass the rabbit trails and potential misery.
Because unawareness = unconsciousness… and awareness = consciousness.
And connecting the dots… unconsciousnesss means our subconscious takes the wheel and that’s where the harmful ego can rear its ugly head.
Turning thoughts into incessant rumination that can affect our entire day and outlook beyond.
Until we stop them dead in their tracks.
Because naturally they don’t stop on their own in a cycle.
The ego protection (that you don’t need most the time) wants you to believe in make-believe. And in its harmful destruction, ego wants you to hold onto bad and unloving thoughts… or else something bad will happen.
That’s hardly the truth.
The opposite will happen…
Where losing rumination, you’ll get your healthy day back and bypass your misery.
When I was growing up, we listened to cassette tapes. And sometimes the tapes got stuck in the player, and then would play the same riff over and over again.
…Until we stepped in and did something about it. We had to turn off the tape player temporarily and fix the problem.
The problem was usually that the playing tape got wrapped around wrong. And when we’re aware, we’d take a pen and roll back the tape around until it was back in line inside the cassette… that would be a good thing to do with our triggered thoughts. 💭
And if the cassette was too damaged, then we could do small repairs like cutting the tape out (…remember that? Those were the days 😊).
We’d tape the good parts together and have a new restored tape.
If successfully done, the tape would be missing the cut out music tape parts that never was as noticeably dramatic as we thought.
And that’s how our thoughts can be. If we cut out bad parts, we’re fixing our bad tapes playing repetitive, non-productive rumination messsages in our heads.
Simple fixes and exercises take seconds to restore back to the healthy.
Where changing thoughts is healthy self-help. 🎉
You’re then no longer a prisoner to your thoughts… unless you allow thoughts to take you captive.
No one in this life comes out with perfect thoughts or are unscathed in this life… but the more practice in changing thoughts, the better you get at it.
And the sooner you feel better, the sooner you learn contentment and joy from happiness within that you’re in control of.
…NOT controlled by external daily situations that life serves up.
It’s your loving lens and perceptions that make the difference… and how you will get more outta this life!
Ego is the wildcard we have no control over.
Except when we’re conscious, then we can kick our subconscious (ego) to the curb.
We can turn to LOVE and our self-serving thoughts (positive thoughts).
So now that that’s clear, BE on close guard.
ALWAYS.
Even if you’re busy, don’t let your guard down.
Slow your life down.
And specifically slow your thoughts down.
Pause.
Don’t react.
And practice saying, “let me think (or pray) about that.”
This is language that your ego hates as this doesn’t let you knee-jerk react (or in some cases if we’re honest, act like a jerk).
If you choose love, you won’t mess up.
Always choose love.
That’s always easier. You don’t have to discern or figure out what you should do in life’s many gray areas and situation you’re part of.
If it feels loving and positive, then you know you’re headed in the right direction somehow, even if you’re not certain how.
It doesn’t matter who or where you are! This works with the love from above. And pays off on earth.
Oh, and always remember, you are loved.